Sex For Dummies. Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer

Safety First Advice for Virgins Advice for Those with Prior Experience Chapter 6: Commitment and Marriage Knowing That Love Isn’t Enough Handling Children and Commitment Putting Your Marriage First Strengthening Your Marriage Chapter 7: It’s All about Control: Contraception and Sex Why Use Contraceptives? Considering Your Birth Control Options Facing Facts about Birth Control Myths If Your Method Fails Chapter 8: Growing Up Fast: The Challenges of the Teen Years Being a Teenager in the 21st Century Evolving into Adulthood Dealing with Common Concerns Protecting Your Privacy Don’t Stop Here

      4  Part 2: Doing It Chapter 9: Foreplay: Revving Up Your Engines Foreplay for Life Linking the Emotional to the Physical Setting the Stage Getting Physical Switching Gears: Engaging the Genitals Moving on to the Main Event Variety Is the Spice of Foreplay Chapter 10: Intercourse: Coming Together for the First Time What’s the Rush? Making Your First Time Special The First Time for Women The First Time for Men The First Time All Over Again Chapter 11: Changing Positions: Variations on a Theme The Good Old Missionary Position The Female-Superior Position Taking Her from Behind East Side, West Side, Side by Side Lap Dancing The Oceanic Position Standing Up Oral Sex: Using Your Mouth Anal Sex: Handle with Care Safe Sex: Playing Alone Together Sex During and After Pregnancy: Orgasms Are Okay, with Changes Chapter 12: Going for the Big O What Is an Orgasm, Anyway? Experiencing Orgasms: Differences for Men and Women Achieving Orgasm: Let Me Count the Ways Don’t Try — Let It Come. You’ll Be Glad You Did Putting on Your O-Face: Responding to the Orgasmic Experience The Best Reason to Have an Orgasm Chapter 13: Afterplay: Embracing the Moment Understanding the Importance of Afterplay Sharing the Moment The Simplest of Techniques Chapter 14: Spicing Up Your Sex Life Using Variety to Add Some Va Va Va Voom to Your Sex Life Expanding Your Toy Chest What If You’re Just Never in the Mood?

      5  Part 3: Different Strokes Chapter 15: Enjoying Oral Sex Overcoming Your Inhibitions Leaving Him Breathless: What Men Like Making Her Toes Curl: What Women Like Dealing with Some Delicate Details Assuming the Position Addressing the Safety Issue Chapter 16: Savoring Solo Play and Fantasy Exploring the Mythology of Masturbation Avoiding Too Much of a Good Thing Masturbation: Good for All Ages Masturbation Education Fantasy: It’s All in Your Head Chapter