Beyond Survival. Gerald Coffee

sit back against the wall and come back to the same theme about the future. He’d say, “Ev, you know someday we’re going to go home and people back home aren’t going to understand what we’ve been through. It’s going to be so hard to conceive. And there’s a message here, a message we need to tell.” I didn’t grasp the full meaning of what he was saying for a long while, but it finally came. Jerry has mastered the ability to articulate the essence of the experience and those values and principles that are our legacy: honor, commitment, sacrifice, integrity, and faith. Nobody tells this story better than Jerry Coffee. I can’t tell you how many times - all over the country - I run into people who say, “Do you know this fellow Jerry Coffee?”, because they’ve just been somewhere and heard him speak. And I say, sure I know him, and they go “Wow! Boy, he blew our socks off. He’s tremendous.”

      ~Everett Alvarez, Commander, U.S. Navy (Ret.), longest held Vietnam POW 8-5-64 – 2-12-73, Deputy Director, Peace Corps; Deputy Director, Veterans Administration; founder, Alvarez and Associates

      “My dear friend Jerry Coffee is a man I’ve become as close to as practically anyone I’ve ever known. It would be very difficult for me to describe all Jerry’s achievements from the Cuban Missile Crisis to his bravery and courage in the Vietnam conflict. I will just say that in prison after the treatment had improved rather dramatically I had the great fun and privilege of living in the same cell with him for a couple of years. I think I found his company a lot more agreeable than he found mine, given my always even-tempered, unemotional approach to things. And although Jerry is a lousy bridge player, I have never known a more kind and generous American. I am very proud that for so many years he has traveled the country giving inspirational talks to people from all walks of life and every strata of America - not only because he has a compelling story but because of his particular fashion of describing the attributes associated with duty, honor, and our country.”

      ~John McCain, Captain, U.S. Navy (Ret.); Vietnam POW 10/26/67 - 3/14/73; United States Senator, Arizona, 1986 – present

      “I have always had this unusual fetish for movies about prisoners of war. In Stalag 17, I was fascinated by how the prisoners in Europe found ways to entertain themselves. After the Sontay raid in 1970 we were finally allowed to be assembled together. I had the privilege of getting to know Jerry Coffee in early 1972. Room 2 held a group of reprobates about 25 strong. By this time, we’d been there five, six, seven years and were pretty cynical about life. The torture had mostly stopped and we were just twiddling our thumbs waiting for the big bombing raids to happen so we could imagine going home someday in the next decade. Then Jerry, who was quite a bit more high-classed than the rest of us, was brought into our midst. There were a number of Marines in the room. John McCain was there, too. We were all groping for ways to entertain ourselves. So Jerry moved in and we discovered he had talents as an artist. After that, he spent hours teaching me and a couple of other rather dumb, uncreative people to draw things using rouge colored roof tile [like chalk] on a concrete floor. Jerry taught me how to draw eyeballs, my specialty. I haven’t pursued that career, but at least he brought some creativity into my life. Jerry Coffee is an incredible individual and eloquent speaker. I honestly believe I’ve never heard anyone say anything bad about him. He is a wonderful, wonderful man I am incredibly blessed to have as a friend.”

      ~Orson Swindle, Lt. Col., USMC (Ret.); Vietnam POW 11/11/66 – 3/4/73; Commissioner, Federal Trade Commission, 1997-2005

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      This book is dedicated to my dear family whose love and faith sustained me, and to all families touched by the Vietnam war, and by America’s war against terrorism. May it promote healing for all that has been lost, and appreciation for all that has been gained.

       FOREWORD

      The Vietnam war divided and compartmentalized society, often obscuring those elements of commonality by which we define ourselves as family, be it our immediate family, our national family, or our family of man. Although I dedicate this book lovingly to my immediate family, the writing has caused me to see beyond my narrow definition of family to include those with whom I served, those for whom I served, and even those I served against.

      The perspective of over four decades has expanded my appreciation for the human side of the story: the personal lives and experiences of captives and captors alike, and the lives of the people with whom they are connected. These are the stories I have told in this book. In this more personal context, perspective and resolution come easier. It also sharpens our sense of urgency to learn and do better in the future.

      Even to this day, the results of the Vietnam War continue to be terribly misunderstood, which I believe is the reason so many Vietnam Vets have been unable to find any positive perspective on their sacrifices there. The fact is, we won the war but we lost the peace. America’s political leaders snatched defeat from the jaws of our victory.

      Consider; Vietnam was an integrel part of the Cold War with the Soviet Union and Communist China. And it should be recalled, we won that war. But the “domino theory” was as valid for South East Asia as it was for Eastern Europe. After North Vietnam went communist, Laos and Cambodia were the first two contiguous countries to fall. We didn’t get there in time to save them. But the potential “dominos” of Thailand, Malaysia, Singapore, Indonesia, and possibly the Philippines were saved by our ten years of holding action against the southward tide of Chinese and North Vietnamese communism. We failed to ensure freedom for the people of South Vietnam, but millions of SouthEast Asians are living in free and prosperous countries today because we were there.

      Every Vietnam Vet should hold his or her head high with pride for what was accomplished by his/her sacrifices there.

       CONTENTS

       Foreword