A Long Way from Home: Part 1 of 3. Cathy Glass

died yesterday?’ Elaine asked, horrified.

      ‘Maybe too late to tell you. You choose another baby. Plenty. Over here.’ She led the way to another cot on the far side of the room.

      ‘I want to go,’ Elaine said, taking Ian’s arm.

      ‘We are leaving,’ he said to the care worker, who was waiting for them by the cot.

      ‘You come here and see baby. Talk to it.’

      ‘No!’ Elaine cried.

      ‘You no want baby?’ the care worker asked, a mixture of incredulity and impatience.

      ‘Not like this,’ Ian said. ‘We came here for Lana and you tell us she is dead. We are very upset.’

      ‘But you can choose another baby,’ she said, as though they were in the wrong.

      ‘No,’ Ian said firmly. ‘We can’t.’

      ‘Suit yourself,’ she said, clearly offended. Leaving the cot, she headed out of the room and towards the main door, a bunch of keys jangling at her hip. They followed. ‘Lots of other parents come here and take our babies,’ she snapped.

      ‘But not us,’ Ian said, annoyed.

      They waited while she unlocked the door. Ian hung back as Elaine stepped outside. ‘Where’s the doctor we’ve been dealing with?’ he asked. ‘He was supposed to meet us here.’

      The care worker shrugged, either not understanding or refusing to answer.

      ‘Dr Ciobanu,’ Ian tried again. ‘We spoke to him on the phone. Is he here?’

      She shook her head. ‘You go now. I’m busy.’

      ‘You tell him we came?’ he said, but she pushed at his arm, signalling for him to leave.

      Ian and Elaine stepped outside and the large metal door clanged shut behind them. A lone child screamed from inside.

      Elaine burst into tears and Ian put his arm around her. ‘I don’t believe it,’ she sobbed. ‘All this time, working towards the adoption, and that heartless woman tells us our baby is dead.’ Although they’d never met little Lana, they’d felt a bond with her ever since they’d first received her details and photograph, and considered her their daughter. This was supposed to have been the final stage in the adoption process that had begun nearly two years before and had included a detailed social worker’s report, references, medicals, and endless form filling and expectation. Today they should have met Lana for the first time, given the doctor their paperwork and signed the forms for court. And while they waited for the court hearing they would have visited Lana each day, loving her more and more. But that had all come to an abrupt and distressing end. Their baby had died.

      Ian gently guided his wife to the taxi they had waiting.

      ‘No baby?’ the taxi driver asked, seeing their faces as they got into the back.

      ‘No. The baby died,’ Ian replied, his voice shaking with emotion.

      ‘Oh dear. It happens in this country,’ the driver said matter-of-factly. ‘Many babies die here.’

      Ian nodded as Elaine wiped her eyes. They knew about the high infant mortality rate and the shocking conditions in some of the state-run orphanages that had contributed to their decision to adopt from this country.

      The driver glanced at them in the rear-view mirror, started the car and pulled away. ‘I find you a healthy baby,’ he said. ‘My cousin knows a lady who finds couples babies. You no worry. She find one for you, and she very cheap.’

      ‘That’s kind of you, but no thank you,’ Ian said politely. They’d been warned about these types of arrangements by other couples who had adopted from this country. There were many parents on the internet who were happy to share their experiences of international adoption to help others. While not always illegal, these private adoptions were fraught with problems, and money was demanded at each stage of the process. Yet ironically they’d followed the correct procedure and look where it had got them!

      ‘You think about it,’ the driver said. ‘I give you my telephone number when we stop.’

      ‘OK,’ Ian said, without the strength to protest.

      The air conditioning in the reception of their three-star hotel was a welcome relief after the heat outside. Ian and Elaine, desperate to be alone, caught the lift straight up to their room on the third floor. The maid had been in and everything was clean and tidy and the bed made. It was such a stark contrast to the poverty outside that Elaine felt a familiar stab of guilt.

      ‘I don’t think we’re meant to have children,’ she said, utterly defeated and sitting on the bed.

      Ian sighed and poured himself a glass of water from the flask that was refreshed daily. ‘I don’t know,’ he said, as dejected as his wife. ‘I expected to face some hurdles, most of those we’ve been talking to who adopted from here did, but I never imagined this. To arrive and be told our child is dead, and then be shown other children, is heartless beyond belief.’

      ‘Do you think what she’s doing is legal?’ Elaine asked.

      ‘Who knows?’

      ‘Those poor children. She kept calling them babies but they weren’t. Some of them could have been six or seven, and most of them were disabled.’

      ‘I suppose they are the ones no one wants to adopt,’ Ian said sadly. ‘That care worker probably thought as Lana had died we’d be desperate and grateful for any child.’

      ‘I feel awful but I really can’t take on a disabled child. I told our social worker that right at the beginning.’ Her voice caught. ‘I’m just not cut out for it.’

      ‘I know, love, me neither. We’ve been honest, and it wasn’t fair to put us in that position.’ He sat beside her on the bed and rested his head back, exhausted.

      They were having to deal with so many emotions: bereavement, shock, disappointment and anger. At forty-two and thirty-eight respectively, this had been Ian and Elaine’s last chance of a family. Elaine was infertile, IVF had failed, and they were considered too old to adopt a baby or very young child in their own country, the UK.

      ‘I think we should just go home and forget about it,’ Elaine said, leaning her head on Ian’s shoulder.

      ‘Yes, I agree. But I’m going to speak to that Dr Ciobanu first and tell him what I think. I don’t want other couples going through what we have.’

      Half an hour later, when Ian felt up to it, he telephoned the orphanage but was told by a care worker that Dr Ciobanu wasn’t there, so he left a message (which he wasn’t sure the care worker understood), saying he’d call back later. After two hours, having heard nothing, Ian tried again and was told bluntly, ‘No doctor.’ But later that evening, with plans to change their flights to the following day so they could return home as soon as possible, they received a phone call from Dr Ciobanu.

      Ian steeled himself to say what he had to; he wasn’t an aggressive man and avoided confrontation, but this needed to be said. Yet before he had a chance, Dr Ciobanu said, ‘Mr Hudson, I’m sorry I wasn’t there to meet you today but my wife was taken to hospital.’

      Thrown, Ian said, ‘Oh, I see. I hope it’s nothing serious.’

      ‘It wasn’t, thank you. A funny turn. She is home now. If you come to the orphanage tomorrow morning you can meet your child.’

      ‘I don’t understand,’ Ian said, shocked and confused. ‘We were told our baby was dead.’ Elaine moved closer to the handset so she, too, could hear.

      ‘Yes, Lana died,’ the doctor said evenly. ‘She was a sickly baby so perhaps it was for the best that it happened here, rather than when you got home. I have another child. She is not sickly. You come here tomorrow