The Mother And Daughter Diaries. Clare Shaw

I saw a rack of red tops. Crimson, rose, scarlet, blood. I picked out a crimson velvety bodice with a laced neckline and loose, Tudor sleeves. It was theatrical, bohemian, historical, vampish. I paid more than I’d meant to which made me feel daring.

      I was thirsty but not daring enough to sit in a coffee-bar on my own. I bought a bottle of diet Coke and found a park near the bus station. A mother and two daughters were feeding the ducks. The eldest girl was about eight or nine. She was pleasing her mother by pulling off fistfuls of bread from a stale loaf and throwing them to the waddling birds.

      ‘That one hasn’t had any,’ the mother was pointing out.

      The girl threw the bread farther and looked at her mother to see if she’d done well.

      ‘Well done, Georgie. Now try that one over there.’

      It was as if the mother was conducting an orchestra. The eldest child was the lead violin and was playing to please. She in turn was encouraging her sister. The eagerness of the girl made me feel sad. No, not sad. More like numb.

      My stomach felt heavy, pressing down as if it was trying to escape. A dull ache had spread across my front and down into my legs. I didn’t want to stand up. I imagined sitting on this park bench into the night. Dew would form on my clothes, my bones would slowly turn rigid. Would anyone mind? Who would blame who? I opened my carrier bag and took out the new top. It wouldn’t go with anything I had in my cupboard.

      I can’t remember going back to Dad’s on the bus. It was as if I was in a trance, not wanting to think. Not wanting to feel. All I knew was the continuous ache.

      The next day I felt better. The first day of my period was always the worst. I had some black coffee and a bowl of cereal. Dad had to go to work. He’d had one day off for the football tournament but couldn’t take any more time. He was sorry, but he could drop me in town. We could go out for a meal in the evening. And to the cinema. I decided to stay at his house and read.

      After he’d shut the front door, I felt free. I wandered around the house. I had a shower. I read a bit. I found some DVDs and slotted one in. The film and the space and the solitude made me feel vaguely happy.

      The phone rang.

      ‘Just phoning to say how much I’m missing you. It’s not the same without you.’

      Scarlet. So obviously Scarlet. Her words.

      ‘I miss you too,’ I said. ‘What’s happening?’

      ‘Usual stuff. What about you? What’s it like being at your dad’s?’

      I looked around the empty hallway. I listened to the silence.

      ‘Cool,’ I said. ‘Once you get used to it. It’s better. I’ve forgotten what it was like when they were together now.’

      ‘I love you, Jo. You always make me feel better. Hey, guess what?’

      ‘What?’

      ‘Cathy’s dumped Alfie.’

      ‘No! Why?’

      ‘Fran heard him telling Rob that he liked blondes the best, that he’d go for a blonde any time. Blonde with blue eyes and big tits, he said.’

      ‘She could dye her hair.’

      ‘Yeah, yeah, and get coloured contacts and a boob job. No, she’s well out of it. No decent girl would change herself for a guy. Can you imagine a guy getting a penis extension just to please you, I mean, come on…’

      I laughed. I wished I was like Scarlet.

      ‘I wish I was funny like you,’ I said.

      ‘You are, you are. You just don’t realise it. Got to go—text me, yeah?’

      ‘Yeah.’

      The hall was silent again. I thought about Scarlet. Missing me, loving me, thinking I’m funny. Funny in a good way. She should have been my sister. That would have worked better. I went and sat in the lounge and did nothing. And didn’t think much. That was good, not thinking much.

      Then Mum phoned.

      It was as if she was there, in my space. Intruding. The silence had been invaded by voices. My freedom was slashed by her interrogation.

      ‘Are you having a good time?’, ‘Is it raining where you are?’, ‘Did Scarlet get hold of you? I gave her the number.’

      I kept my answers short. I wanted my time back again. Anything lost could never be retrieved. The questions were time-wasters, pointless, conversational, lightweight fillers that didn’t mean anything. The next question had more weight.

      ‘Has your tummy settled down now?’

      ‘Yeah.’

      I waited. It was a short, split-second of a wait that felt longer.

      ‘Only the funniest thing happened. Well, it was going to be a surprise but you know how useless I am at surprises. I mean, remember your surprise party last year—mind you, I blame Scarlet for that—anyway, that’s all under the bridge. Now, what was I saying?’

      Yeah, what had she been saying? So many words, so little content. I knew what was coming. Like the punchline of an old schoolboy joke.

      ‘I’m decorating your room as a surprise. There, I’ve told you.’

      But she hadn’t told me yet. I hung on for the punchline.

      ‘The silly thing is…well, I found some food under your bed and in your drawer. I wasn’t looking, I was decorating and, well…you know. I don’t know if it’s to do with this vegetarian thing or if it’s your tummy. Still, well, you know…I had to laugh, seeing all those sandwiches you’d obviously forgotten about, then I thought, Oh, dear, perhaps you’re not well. Only I could make a doctor’s appointment if you want. I only mentioned it because I was phoning anyway.’

      Why ask questions if you’re going to supply your own answers? Why ask questions if you know the answer but will accept a different one? I remember Eliza’s questions when she was about three. ‘Why?’ was enough to keep the conversation going. Any answer would do.

      ‘I knew you were worried about my stomach,’ I explained. ‘I didn’t want you to worry any more. I’m fine now.’

      ‘I knew there was a simple explanation. Eliza’s fine, by the way—her rehearsals are going well.’

      ‘Great.’

      ‘What are you up to today, then?’

      If you have a dry, gristly piece of meat, cover it with pas-try or sauce or aromatic herbs. Disguise the feel of it, the flavour, the quality. Maybe nobody will notice. But I always do.

      I needed to make a list. No, two lists. A list for the day and a list for the week.

       List One (Tuesday):

      • Wash hair.

      • Buy magazine.

      • Text Scarlet.

      • Cook tea for Dad.

      • Shave legs.

      • Sew button on shirt.

      • Try on new top.

      • Read through chemistry curriculum.

      • Find scales and weigh myself.

      • Do fifty sit-ups.

       List Two (Weds—Sat):

      • Weigh self every day.

      • Send postcard to Scarlet.

      • Go to library and look at university prospectuses/ career books.

      • Run every day.

      • Measure waist.