Эмоциональный интеллект для больших целей. Бизнес-тренинг по эффективному и бережному управлению эмоциями. Сергей Шабанов

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практика. – М.: МИФ, 2021.

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      Шабанов С., Алешина А. Эмоциональный интеллект в сложных коммуникациях. – М.: МИФ, 2022.

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      Модель описана упрощенно и своими словами. Прим. автора.

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      Дэниел Гоулман (род. 1946) – американский писатель, психолог, научный журналист, автор более 10 книг по психологии, образованию и лидерству. Прим. ред., если не указано иное.

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      Направление в психологии, которое утверждает, что большинство наших проблем (если не все) являются результатом нашего неправильного поведения, которое, в свою очередь, появилось у нас из-за «неправильного научения». Соответственно, вывод следующий: чтобы решить все проблемы, нужно человека переучить. Прим. автора.

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