Contents How to speak successfully to your dream woman Contents Foreword About the correct usage of this eBook Introduction Take control of your love-life Do you have trouble knowing what to say when you see an attractive woman? What you are missing Take control of your (love-) life Chapter 1 – The first step Make a decision My first step Your first step: make a decision Now it is your turn! Chapter 2 – The second step Getting into the right frame of mind Charge up your batteries Start your engines – dream! Now it is your turn! Accept it: happiness is out there, waiting for you to take it Tip Chapter 3 – the third step Discover your destructive forces – that which prevents you, to speak to your dream woman Like remote controlled forces which steer us Forces which inhibit us The nature of a human being: avoid unpleasantness and attain short-term pleasure A favourite formula for unhappiness Three prevalent forces which steer us 1. Notions Example: The man in the train Another false notion 2. Upbringing "Big boys don't cry" Careful, strangers! 3.